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Unhitched: Love, Marriage, and Family Values from West by Judith Stacey

By Judith Stacey

Judith Stacey, 2012 winner of the Simon and Gagnon Lifetime fulfillment Award provided by way of the yank Sociological Association.
A major professional at the family members, Judith Stacey is understood for her provocative study on mainstream concerns. discovering herself impatient with more and more calcified positions taken within the interminable wars over same-sex marriage, divorce, fatherlessness, marital constancy, and so forth, she struck out to profile strange cultures of up to date love, marriage, and kin values from all over the world.
Built on bracing unique examine that spans homosexual men’s intimacies and parenting during this nation to plural and non-marital varieties of relatives in South Africa and China, Unhitched decouples the taken without any consideration relationships among love, marriage, and parenthood. Countering the one-size-fits-all imaginative and prescient of family members values, Stacey deals readers a full of life, in-person advent to those much less common kinds of intimacy and relatives and to the social, political, and financial stipulations that buttress and batter them.

Through compelling tales of actual households navigating inescapable own and political trade-offs among hope and domesticity, the booklet undermines well known convictions approximately relatives, gender, and sexuality hung on the left, correct, and heart. taking up prejudices of either conservatives and feminists, Unhitched poses a strong empirical problem to the idea that the nuclear family—whether instantly or gay—is the one, top solution to meet our wishes for intimacy and care. Stacey calls on voters and policy-makers to make their peace with the truth that relatives variety is the following to stay.

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It included men who lived or parented alone, with friends, lovers, former lovers, biological or legal and adopted kin, and children of every “conceivable” origin. I attempted to contact the men and a few of their women kin again when I began to write these chapters in the fall of 2008. That was several months after the historic California Supreme Court decision in favor of same-sex marriage and in the midst of the pitched electoral-season battle over Proposition 8, which proposed to amend the state constitution to ban such marriages.

Three Polyamorous Brothers-in-Law Matt and Robert enjoyed close relationships with most of their siblings, nieces and nephews, and extended kin. Particularly titillating to Matt, Robert, and most of their relatives was the household in which Matt’s gay brother-in-law Kevin Engelhard lived. In 1997 Matt’s younger sister, Sophia, Love, Sex, and Kinship in Gay El Layâ•… 25 had married Kevin’s older brother. When I interviewed Sophia in 2001, she reported that their three-year-old daughter was basking in the adoration of five gay uncles.

I was deeply disappointed that my concerted efforts to locate anyone from this family again in 2008 proved fruitless. The former telephone numbers I had for Randolph, Dino, and Mikey were no longer in service, and my dogged Internet search hit a cold trail. I sadly presume that Randolph had died in the intervening years, and with him his rainbow household. Whether or not he had bequeathed any of his estate to Dino, Mikey, and his other boys, or how they have fared without him, I was unable to learn.

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